One nurse thought I was "brave." I think she was talking about my steely-eyed, grin-and-bear-it kind of attitude. There were no tears, no complaints from me - a total lack of affect. In a victim, it is courage and thus admirable; in a predator, it is a lack of humanity and instills fear. M.E. Thomas
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One of the most difficult things for children to understand is that not everyone is nice. Sometimes, people are mean and even cruel to others, especially children. While it may be hard to understand, it is important for children to learn that there are some people who will not use good behavior toward them. When someone acts nice toward a child, that child knows that they are not being treated fairly.

That person is acting nice only because the person knows that the child will be easier to control. The child cannot depend on them if they are not being nice.

Source: Confessions Of A Sociopath: A Life Spent Hiding In Plain Sight

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